Protagonist and HR manager in his early forties. Initially content with a single, low-demand lifestyle, he navigates casual relationships and shelter dog volunteering. His journey leads to a profound connection with Iris, culminating in a dramatic wedding interruption. By 2015, he claims to be over romantic pursuits until meeting Lena, forcing him to confront new family pressures and rely on his steadfast friend group.
Brief romantic encounter that highlights Paul's transitional emotional state.
Paul's former spouse who reconnects with Guido, leading to his personal redemption.
Initial romantic partner representing Paul's reluctance to commit before meeting Iris.
Former chauffeur and painter who becomes a core member of the friend group.
Socially awkward computer nerd and Paul's most trusted confidant.
Publishing colleague and roommate who acts as a loyal, comedic ally in Paul's romantic journey.
Protagonist and veterinarian develop a deep romantic connection despite Iris's initial engagement.
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